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Dealing with frustrations from relatives and friends who aren’t invited to your wedding may be exhausting, especially if you’re throwing a small or micro wedding. You’ve mailed out the invitations, and now you’re getting calls from people who aren’t on your guest list, expressing their confusion, anxiety, or even fury. “Why am I not invited?”

There will always be a list of the uninvited, whether due to money or capacity limits. Then there’s the problem of how to tell someone they won’t be able to attend your special day. The “you’re not invited” cards are amusing elopement announcement cards for newlyweds to send after their elopement. We give credit to this post, but we are not advocating you send cards telling them they’re uninvited to your wedding.